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Last Post: Drunk will often be the reason.

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Last Post: Me and an ex used to go to partner swapping parties. Overall it was alright, we both didn't look at it as cheating as we were both aware of what was happening and was happy for each other to go off with someone else. Course in the end she ended up going off with someone else when it wasn't a partner swapping party and the rest as they say.......is history! :)

Last Post: since we are supposed to be a nation of laws, I would guess you would have to say it's legit, however, it doesn't seem to be any different than the shyster lawyer lawsuit commercials all over tv, just looking for a victim and a large pocket book to sue. May need to try to change the law before this becomes the next designer lawsuit. I can already see the commercials playing out like a combination of a viagra commercial with sexy women and then a frumpy woman saying " have you lost your husband to a harlot at work, come see the law firm of ...... and we'll help you sue her and the employer.....

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Last Post: Would you stick around for the "I’m gonna leave him/her for you...just wait till the time’s right"?

Last Post: well, either they’re the jealous type - or you’ve given them reason to be suspicious. Been there and shoulda known better.

Last Post: So...if the person knows that your SO is involved...does that make them responsible?

Last Post: i wanna ask a question quite close to that ... if u know the other person u r getting with has a partner ... but they happily ignore it. does that make you as guilty when someone cheats? I’m asking cuz many times when a woman cheats the men (this is obviously for the cases when getting caught) develop a real hate against the man she’s cheating with even if he had no idea that she wasn’t alone.

Last Post: count me in smu ill oblige you in a second if your guiy isnt putting out then shane on him youre a fox baby!!

Last Post: i agree with what bghamer said (on both acconts)

Last Post:  Catch a Man Cheating - Infidelity and Law Regulations For Unfaithful Men by Jane A. Smith Infidelity History from Law perspective In Ancient Rome, the traditional price paid for infidelity was stoning to death, but in comparison with two thousand years ago, today’s society has developed along with time passing. The general definition states that infidelity is an infringement of trust or a contract invasion, and this is interpreted as a community offence since 1660 when the Common Law has enforced the introduction of a trust relied law. 7 Top Ways to Tell If Your Wife is Cheating by Michele Banks This article details 7 ways to tell if your wife is cheating. It lists the most commonly occurring habits. It also offers some suggestions on stopping the affair. Cheating Spouse? How to Catch Your Cheating Spouse Now! by Chess McDoogle Here is the perfect way to catch a cheating spouse red handed. Learn whether or not inappropriate behavior has been taking pla

Last Post: I know who I wish to marry. She isn’t going to marry me I don’t think, so I will never get married.

Last Post: I’ve had my ass licked and while it feels great, I’ve never had an orgasm from just that.

Last Post: Guess we gotta go with what works for us. I sure can understand your opinions and why, been there my self, - B"UT cant understand why anyone would run around on you given you attitude, inagination, looks and ambition. That Ol’ boy was crazy.

Last Post: im glad for you hang +in there++++++++++++++++++++

Last Post: Just walk away MT... It is the best... relaize that the accusations have nothing to do with you but are rather aimed at him... You have been dragged in because of your frinedship... You have to judge if the friendship is worth dealing with this in the hopes of a friendship after the ugliness

Last Post: You mention several times how much you regretted doing it, so what’s the question? Cheating sucks, and the person who gets cheated on will not be thrilled, whatever the excuse. Seems simple to me. And if you aren’t drunk enough that your junk still works, you probably were sober enough to realize you shouldn’t do it. Don’t tase me, bro!

Last Post: recently, yes, and yes, I caught him. If you’re gonna cheat, don’t advertise online to do it. Somebody who knows your girl/guy is gonna find it and pass it on. Trust me on this.

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Last Post: I agree that it shouldn’t matter. So, does your reaction make a difference because it’s your parents? would you have the same actions if it were, say, a couple of friends?

Last Post: Well if you all are leaving throw me a few shots, Yea that would be cool. You don’t need them right

Last Post: Pond.....this is not an easy experience to get thru. No matter the choice there will be doubts and pain. Weigh the pros and cons. I don’t believe the "once a cheater, always a cheater". Everyone’s different...I cheated once...12 yrs ago...and it was the dumbest thing I’ve ever done. I’ve never allowed myself to get in that position again. It sounds like your gal showed signs of being curious about other sexual experiences. Sounds like she may do it again...but I don’t know her inner thoughts. And from your comments about a previous break up that ended up causing more pain and regret than normal, I’m sure the situation was different. Cheating is serious and should be taken serious...unless you don’t mind sharing her. Take care... SMU

Last Post: Well said, Suz.

Last Post: More than the nude pic thing..I think the fact that it’s someone right there with you that porb makes it wrong..cuz I mean if you’re doing that shit then you’re really kinda flirting with each other and building towards actually hooking up

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Last Post: Hi everyone,I wanted your oppinion/advice on this matter. When is it okay to sleep with a married woman?Is it ever okay? What would be the circumstances that would make it okay?What if her husband wasn--apost--t interested in her and had not slept with her in over 1 year? Would that make it okay to have an affair with her? if not, would anything make this morally permissable?thanksde

Last Post: I personally believe that uniform monogamy is a social condition, rather than a natural one. I think it was necessary for the stability of the family, for sure, to impose it, but now that we are a lot less likely to be eaten by the lion outside the door, it is possible for some to open the door to responsible non-monogamy.I take a small exception to the idea that the alternative to monogamy is "multiple random partners", though. Yes, that is how some non-monogamous people choose to act, but equally there are others (including myself) who practice responsible non-monogamy, or polyamory.Don’t get me wrong - I’m not trying to say that everyone should - everyone has their own preferences about what they want from life and out of their partners. I am just saying that there IS an alternative that is still about having committed relationships - just with more than one person.So I actually believe that the natural state - the one that we would naturally fall into, is diff

Last Post: see MT there it is,that simple

Last Post: mostly if i did,is because it would be NEW, lol

Last Post: exacltly. that--apost--s why you have to be able to remember and protect yourself from it happening - if you can.

Last Post: Where have you been Jes... How are things?

Last Post: I might be in, but the wife isn--apost--t into it, so it--apost--s kinda out of the question. And I--apost--ve always wondered how jealous I might get. I--apost--ve gotten bent out of shape over much worse...

Last Post: Saw this on TV and thought it was interesting....What would you do if you found your significant other--apost--s cell phone and decided to scroll through the text messages...and find one that you are 90% sure proves that they are cheating on you.Do you:A) Confront the person, knowing that if it turns out to be that 1 in 10 chance that it--apost--s explainable, you--apost--ve ruined the relationship because you invaded their privacy...or...B) Do nothing and hope that because things seem to be going well, that it WAS indeed that 1 in 10 chance... Just curious....again.... ;-)

Last Post:  I had cheated on girlfriends before but I never cheated in 21 years on my wife That promise-once it was made- was sacred to me.

Last Post: I guess I--apost--d have to say that besides actual penetration...it would be emotions that would determine cheating...I just don--apost--t see how --quote--cyber sex--quote-- can be cheating...But I guess I would say that if you get emotionally involved with someone you could consider that cheating even if there isn--apost--t actual sex.

Last Post: I might be condemned for saying this, but I have cheated twice in my past, but both of those times by accident (ish). Once I thought we--apost--d split up (that he had dumped me), and so I met up with an old fuck buddy. The other time I--apost--d been trying to split with this guy for about a month, but hadn--apost--t been able to get through to him (at school, or on the phone, or anywhere); I got asked out by a guy I--apost--d had my eye on for ages, and ended up sending the other guy a text dumping him the same evening I started going out with the other one. So yes, it could be said that I--apost--ve cheated on guys in my past, but neither has been strictly speaking intentional, and I would always try to avoid that situation. I agree with what other people have said, that if you are looking elsewhere in a relationship, then it--apost--s time to break it off, to avoid cheating, but it--apost--s not always that easy.

Last Post: I would write more, but MT hit the highlights. Cheating is reprehensible no matter the situation.

Last Post: Okay, so then answering under the --quote--getting back WITH the partner--quote-- criteria:Don--apost--t they do it because they realize what they could have just lost and want it back? or want back with someone they know they can manage to cheat on if the desire strikes again? - Man, they let me do it once, what--apost--s one more time, and another, and another...

Last Post: Good times....we used to have some really good parties...good times....yeah...good times....

Last Post: Same here Uncle JR. She--apost--d know if I had a girlfriend from misappropriated funds and whatnot.

Last Post: I think there are very, very, very few instances in which I could view someone--apost--s reasoning for cheating as legitimate and valid. But I really think it--apost--s a selfish thing to do. The person only cares about their desires and doesn--apost--t seem to stop and think about how their partner will feel.

Last Post: Talking isn--apost--t cheating unless you are talking to get laid........otherwise, its just considered talking.

Last Post: I don--apost--t know if this is considered stealing....When I was in the Marines, a group of us went to Tijuana for a weekend. There, we met a few other female Marines that happened to be stationed on the same base. The guys that I was with were all over the girls, but I kept my distance.Once we got back to base, one of my buddies started dating one of the girls. After I did some investigating, I found out she was already engaged to another Marine. I told my friend, but he said he already knew this, but she was breaking it off. Ok, so weeks go by and she does break off the engagement and is exclusive with my friend. Then...My buddy takes a week of leave to see his family in Louisiana. While he is gone, this little number is coming around still and starts chatting with me. I--apost--m cold at first, keeping my distance. Finally after a few days, we--apost--ve sort of broke the ice and she asks me to go out to the --quote--E-club--quote-- for some drinks and dancing. My thoughts are, sur

Last Post: I joined a couple of hot lesbian girls in New York. The hot one wanted to stay out with me and the girlfriend went home. Once the one with me experienced some de cock - she just about turned straight. good times.

Last Post: Why no fucking wordNo graceful, respectful exit,abandonment--exclaim--How many nights have been filled with BDBP?How many times has BDBP gotten drunk with you,and gotten you drunk with her rare honesty?Can you not see what you--apost--ve learned when the threads are through?Blind to the new, inhumanly gentle, subtle gifts you grew?Yet even though this great forum needs you too,Thinking you--apost--ve mastered all her wisdom and challengesYou think you grew out of herYet, know this; for you to snub,Leave, without word nor trace,Shows without doubtYou had much more to see here,and merely saw BDBP--apost--s face.

Last Post: no i wouldn--apost--t consider it cheating