Last Post:  hmmmm how many kids would be a start i guess if any at all

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Last Post: well, afterwards, it has a significant meaning all of it’s own.

Last Post: perhaps the Hollywood types get stuck in their roles that they play and forget how to be themselves. So, Joe meets Jane, falls in love, and finds out it was all an act.

Last Post: Why marry someone you don’t like in hopes they will get better anyway? shouldn’t you marry someone because you like them the way they are?

Last Post: I have heard of some prenups that have built in clauses to become void after ___ years. I think that--apost--s a great idea.

Last Post: The relationship that I am in now we currently have three seperate accounts. One is a joint account for bills, one is her play money and one is my play money. We found this works best as long as honesty and integrity are within the relationship so that the bill account doesn--apost--t get touched for play items.

Last Post: I think that the only reason two people should ever get married is because of love or to get a greencard (j/j). Getting pregnant and then getting married because of it will only create problems down the line.

Last Post: HHMMMM Well its not fear then cause i--apost--m not afraid to ask and I would guess 75 % of the time she would say yes.This feeling is a meloncholy one That is to say its not like --quote--Oh my God I need sex now--exclaim----quote--It may be that we just are having a little fantasy and want it to stay a fantasy cause the real thing wouldn--apost--t be the same as what we are imagining.Not thaty the real thing would be worse but just that it weould be different thann what the mind can conjure.Is this more proof that sex really deos occur in the brain ?

Last Post: Iwill take his name. I--apost--m traditional like that. I amactually looking forward to it. Odd as that may sound. It--apost--snot that my last name is bad or anything, just incrediblylong. His is almost half as long. That--apost--ll benice. lol. Thefamily name will be carried on, just not through me. Even if itwasn--apost--t...that still wouldn--apost--t change anything. In my mind, it goeswith the vows and I can wait until that part where they present us asMr and Mrs. *sigh*

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Last Post: Whether at 7 or 5 or 9 years there seems to me to come a time to think you may or may not cheat.In my case i credit having not married til i thought i had pretty much explored all the sexual avenues i wanted to There did come a time when i thought if a hotty offered herself i would do it Then it did happen that while out of town at a funeral send off with some girlfriends of old and my wife at home with the kids. First one did a striptease for me on a table and then later the other came and slept with me.I did not have sex with either of them though . It kept running though my head that it wasnt ever going to be more than the one time and that i would be chancing losing too much . I believe I got through it uncheating out of respect for my wife and because the expirience realy wouldnt have been anything i hadnt already done. As time passed the want of others just faded and my relationship with my wife though changed was stronger for having gone through the phase. I know my wife must ha

Last Post: I--apost--m pretty terrified of divorce. Makes me almost nervous to get married. I am determined to not get one, though.

Last Post: Marriage evolves as people evolve. Some people evolve in a positive way, others in a negative way. I posted somewhere that I am not the same person I was when I got married all those years ago. My husband is not the same person he was when he married me. We have grown into two completely different people, and it--apost--s noone--apost--s fault. It just happens. What was perfect for you 20 years ago, may not be perfect now. Marriage is a good thing. Know what you want, know what you are willing to put up with and what you are not. Marry someone that makes you laugh, and keeps your mind stimulated. Base your marriage on open communication and honesty. One of the most toxic forces in a marriage is lack of communication and not being honest because of fear (fear of leaving, fear of verbal, emotional, physical abuse, fear of rejection, etc.). You have to know who you are and what you really want from someone before making such a life-altering decision. Choosing to be married (or not married

Last Post: Well, I--apost--m sorry I haven--apost--t been around to jump on this thread.I have a million reasons for waiting. The easiest to explain is my religion- as a Christian, sex outside of marriage is wrong. But, to be honest, that--apost--s not even a 100th of the reason why I want to wait until marriage anymore. I just feel sex is so special and so binding. I--apost--m not the type to view it as a simple act between two horny people who are attracted to each other during a one night stand. And since this is an honest forum- I hate that perspective. It is so completely off the mark with me and would probably be the worst thing I could do because I can--apost--t imagine being like that, because I feel so strongly that sex shold be special, between two people who love each other and are devoted to each other for life. I know that when I do have sex, it will be very emotional for me. I know that the man I choose to sleep with, I will feel an emotional, spritual, and, of course, physical conn

Last Post: How about a guys--apost-- point of view? Would you marry a woman if you knew she was doing it primarily for money? Would you marry a woman because she had money? Come on, fess up--exclaim-- Under what physical attributes would she have to have in order for you to marry her for the money?